11:21pm
So here I go. I think the idea is to not stop typing and just keep writing what you are thinking. Well my first thought is that I am a rusty typer. I used to be so fast that people would comment on it at work. I’ve always loved the sound of a keyboard. When I was little, I used to pretend that I was a librarian or receptionist and just type away on a broken keyboard we had lying around. I practiced typing my name the most. I guess I probably just didn’t know what else to type. However, I can type my name pretty fast still I think… Let me try it. Elizabeth Charlotte Miller. Ok, so I stumbled on my first name. I must be getting too used to typing Lizzie for everything. I wish everyone would just call me that. I would forget who Elizabeth was and just be this one and only “Lizzie.” Just a first name. Am I cool enough or even important enough to rock just a first name? I mean I’m not Madonna or Ke$ha. I guess I can do whatever I choose. Well, not really. Because no matter how hard I try, people still call me Elizabeth. Which is somehow ok when it’s family or people who have known me long enough. But I just feel like the people who didn’t know me before “Lizzie” should see it as a privilege to call me “Elizabeth,” but they act as if it’s the opposite. Wow. I’ve wanted to rant about that for so long. No one seems to understand how important it was for me to “become” Lizzie. It’s not just a name to me. So maybe the people that actually call me Lizzie understand that. Maybe I have it all backwards. The people that respect my wishes to be called Lizzie are, or could be, those that understand on a deeper level.
So I guess I should probably use fake names or no names at all just for everyone’s privacy and personal business. I just hope no one ever plays detective and ruins the anonymity of it all. Not that I’m planning on talking mad shit about everyone, but I mean… I’m literally just typing what it on my mind. I can’t help what I think half the time, and they are MY thoughts. So if anyone who is super sensitive is reading this, STOP NOW. Seriously. How would you feel if someone was reading your most intimate and sincere thoughts? That’s beyond an invasion of privacy. That’s crossing lines that you can never uncross. So yea. I just had to get that out. I don’t know why I’m so nervous to do this journal thing. I’ve tried the paper and pen kind for YEARS, but I can’t seem to make it a habit. I think it’s because I’m so obsessed with what my handwriting looks like cuz it HAS to be perfect… Anyways, I concentrate more on the letters and not the words or even the thoughts. My hand can’t keep up with my thoughts so it’s just a frustrating lost cause. But anyways, the point I’m trying to make is this going to be unfiltered for the most part, so you have been warned.
So now that I’ve probably wasted no one’s time but my own, I’m going to start talking. Talking to myself? Maybe I should be cool and make these letter format. “Dear so-and-so…” Haha. I’m not cool enough for just a first name, so I’m definitely not honored enough to write letters like Evan Hansen.
Surprisingly enough, this is not a homework project. This is an idea I got out of a book that I’m reading right now in which the lady writes letters to her therapist to help her “get better.” The point is that I’m hoping that this will somehow help me feel better. Because I’m so tired of pretending that I’m okay, and I don’t know how much longer I can do it…
Not to go all emo there. Although I did listen to that Pandora station today. It will always be my favorite station I think. Something about the nostalgic feelings that for once are a positive thing. I just think music is magical in so many ways. But that is something for another day.
My boyfriend is getting ready for bed. I know it’s technically late and past the normal bedtime for people our age, but I still hate it whenever I can tell he’s about to go to sleep. I guess I just feel so alone when he’s sleeping which makes me sound like a psycho girlfriend. I’m letting him watch his cursed island show right now, so I can’t be doing that bad at the job. Although, I still don’t have a ring on that finger… Again, a topic for another day…
I guess overall today was a good day, and honestly the best part has been writing this. How weird. No way will it work that fast. I will probably have to force myself to even write hello tomorrow. We will see. Until then (and yes I’m going to sign off with my signature)…
With love to every human,
Lizzie
11:57pm
I’m back. That stupid show still has a decent amount of time left so I decided I would force myself to write a bit more. I’m so uncomfortable in this bed right now. I have been a lot actually. I don’t know why? It’s not like a too hot or too cold feeling. Or it’s not like the bed it too hard or too soft, it’s just that the bed for some reason opens up my mind and releases thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts. Maybe I’m just a night owl so that’s when I think. But I mean I already took my Ambien, but I’ll probably still be awake for a while. For no reason. I really hope not because I can feel a migraine coming. Ugh. I need to put in my new birth control. It’s such an easy task, but I haven’t done it yet. Well, my boyfriend hasn’t. I know that sounds weird, but we are literally THAT close of a couple. I have trouble getting the ring in far enough, and he can see what he’s doing and, well yea… I wish I could say it always has a happy ending, but thanks to Prozac, I have no sex drive. Sorry, probably too much information.
Let me rant about that for a second. Hang on, need a hit. Ok, two solid hits late, and I’m ready to vent. Do you know how much it sucks to NOT want to have sex? I mean seriously. It is the MOST frustrating thing. Why would I not want to do something that feels good? I mean I know what it can lead to, and even thinking of a good climax makes me cringe, but I just don’t want to be touched. Maybe it’s because I’ve been feeling more and more self-conscious lately? I feel big, All the time.
Let’s move on to that subject. Do you know how many times I’ve thought “if only I would have gotten my act together a year ago, I could be skinny right now.” Which depresses me even more because everything on my wiggles. I mean EVERYTHING. I feel old and fat, so don’t blame me for not wanting to be touched. I can’t help it. I wish I could, but I can’t. I accept defeat on that challenge.
But then I start to wonder how much it really bothers Amy boyfriend. I mean, he’s a guy after all. I would think he’s disappointed. Well, I know he is because he makes comments about it all the time. But then those comments just turn me off even more. Maybe if he tried more? But he has to do it at the right time because I’m weird. Maybe it’s all because of what HE did to me, I don’t know. I wonder that all the time. Sometimes I think HE may have ruined me more than I realize. Which if that is the case, then it is not going to be smooth sailing ahead. Time will tell.
Ok, I’m really going to try to sleep now. Oh! And the show just ended. So peace.
With love to every human,
Lizzie